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Early gay clues (continued)

"I think it was pretty obvious, I was in third grade and I remember really enjoying watching the movie cause I liked Leonardo DiCaprio...I know he's not hot now but yeah that started it all, and then I never liked sports, was sensitive, had almost ONLY girl friends, played dolls like it was nothing different when my girlfriends wanted to play. Never really knowing what it meant but after being accused of being "gay" in the fifth grade I started trying to change myself and only in grade 8 I start to accept it."  TY

"I guess I was more emotional and sensitive than others, and I had a lot more friends who were girls than guys...but that are not the best sign."    HA

"I think we've been gay LONG before we realized it.... It seems that we have been gay from very early on, and not realized it wasn't 'normal' (by societies' standards) for a long time..." SM

"But I liked looking at guys butts from an early year. Also liked my 'boy' friends when they stayed over and undressed or went to the bathroom. I was very curious and liked my buddies. I did like girls also."  SI

"One time I was at a friend's house, and we were looking at porn... (11 or 12 years of age) and I just happened to be "Curious" to see if his was bigger than mine."  BO

"I was very feminine. Played those girly hand games. Made flower necklaces. Played with Barbies. Liked to do hair. Oh, and I told my parents I wanted to be a girl. [When I was very very very young.]"  ME

"When I was very very very young I used to stare at the swimmers of my school (well when I was younger I used to swim. Unfortunately my body doesn't allow me to do it anymore... yeah, I dont feel comfortable enough); and i just remembered that i used to love their belly." BG

"I remember when I was only like 3 I like to put on dresses. When I read books I used to stare at the guys on the covers and wonder what they looked like naked (especially the pic of Tobias from the anamorphic books). I was never really into sports and I cried a lot. I was really sensitive. I also did a bit of exploring with other boys myself haha. I used to hang out with more girls than guys too." DR

"Well besides always wanting to play with dolls and being overly sensitive, I think my biggest sign is that I always wanted to do ballet, gosh it was my friggen dream and still is, I would go with my mom to pick up my sister from ballet and the guys that did it just looked so beautiful while they danced, I wanted to be them. I got up the nerve to ask my mom once but she just told me "Freddie, ballet is for girls...why would you want to do something for girls. I wont have it", then she would start pressuring me about playing football. I'm 15 now so I guess it ain't too late but she'd never let me do it..." GU

"No sports (still no sports, except for "football" or soccer here in America occasionally)
Girls liked me like crazy for some reason, but I never totally liked them back sexually, just as friends. Had guy friends as well, but just friends, never really went too far.
I used to help mom cook, though I don't anymore. I should get back into that. There are some other things but I won't list them here." AN

"Now that I think of it, I can remember liking guys in 4th grade. Well not sexually, but when I think about it now, I know I liked them. Also, I've never liked sports and still don't." ME

"I messed around with a lot of guys when I was younger, the whole pre-pubescent experimentation thing, which is odd considering that I do not do so now. Other than that I didn't really have a lot of gay tendencies ... my favorite things to play with were Z-Bots, these little robot things, even when I had the option to play with my sister's girlier toys, although actually we managed to mix the two. I tried sports and martial arts at one point, and both were definitely too rough for me, I was kind of sensitive, although that has changed as I have gotten older."  BR

"I was actually thinking about this earlier today!! And yeah there were signs. When I was a kid my best friend (now my BOYFRIEND LOL) and I played this game where for some reason I had to wear my dog's collar and he had to drag me around by it so Embarrassed - guess that says a lot huh? Well that and the fact that we used to swim naked together in his pool and we wouldn't get in at all if one of us wouldn't get naked so Embarrassed again and HOW did my mom miss that???" SI

"Now that I remember, when at the age of five my mother told me about what happens between men and women (And she used horribly graphic details - sweat and friction and things) my immediate reaction was:- "Urrghh - like anyone in their right mind would ever do that!" I always was ahead of my time." AL

"Heh, when I was in 2nd or 3rd grade, I hung out with a lot of girls. One day, all these little boys came up and started giving them a hard time, so I went and tried to kiss them for some reason. They all ran away."  PI

"Trying to hug all the older boys in the playground when I was 7/8. They called me gay though I had no idea what it meant and didn't stop. Plus there's this guy who I still see, we went to the same secondary school. I had really strong feelings for him when I was younger, though it's not till now I've worked out what those feelings were."  SA

"I did everything they asked me to do - mainly "guys" stuff. I played football, I had lessons of japanese fights, I used to swim and still they couldnt change anything on me. And I believe that I had my first "gayish" thoughts when I started to swim. There was a blondie and older guy who used to swim (he was maybe 8-10) and I remember perfectly that I felt some sexual attraction for him." BG

 

So there you have it, the opinions of young gay teens as they look back on their earlier years in a search for early clues that weren't obvious at the time but seem much more significant now.

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